The Surprising Benefits of a Good Relationship
You can probably think of many good reasons for sharing quality time with your spouse or partner. Spending time together – even if it’s just relaxing – helps you stay close and feel connected.
And, it turns out; it may also help you stay healthy for years longer.
More than 150 years ago, a doctor named William Farr looked at birth, marriage and death records from across Britain. One trend really stood out: Married people seemed to live longer than unmarried people.
Farr’s numbers were rough. But recent studies show he was on to something. Today, you’ll discover what that “something” is.
A good relationship is a little like health insurance. A German study found that men living alone had a 50% higher risk of death – from any cause – than married men. For women living alone, the risk increased by 60%.1
A Japanese study got similar results. They followed 94,062 adults for nearly 10 years.2 and married people just seem to stay healthier, longer.
But does marriage itself really make you healthier? Not according to several recent studies. It appears that it may be the quality of the relationship that matters.
Researchers from Pittsburgh and San Diego took a closer look. They discovered that married women have a lower risk of heart trouble – but only if they’re happily married.3
Another study found that women with satisfying marriages sleep better.4 Of course, sleep is key to good health.
A third study discovered that happily married women have clearer arteries. Even after 14 years, the happy women had healthier arteries. 5
In other words, having a good relationship is probably more important than being married. And the benefits can be terrific. Besides those I’ve already mentioned, you may experience…
- Healthier blood pressure
- Lower levels of stress
- Less chance of feeling blue
- Greater overall satisfaction with life6
A team at the Medical University of South Carolina recently uncovered another benefit of a satisfying relationship. One that could help you fight the effects of aging.
You may have read articles I’ve written on telomeres. They’re caps that keep your chromosomes from “unraveling” during cell division.
Each time a cell divides, its telomeres get shorter. Eventually, the telomeres are too short to protect the chromosomes, and the cell dies. As this happens more and more, you begin to see the signs of aging.
The South Carolina researchers discovered that people living in relationships have longer telomeres than single people.7 In other words; their cells appear “younger.” And that could translate into keeping a more youthful look longer.
So the next time you’re celebrating a special occasion with your partner, don’t just thank them for being your sweetheart. Thank them for the gift of better health, too.
Best Life Herbals Wellness Team
Best Life Herbals
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2 Ikeda A, et al. Marital status and mortality among Japanese men and women: the Japan Collaborative Cohort Study. BMC Public Health. 2007 May 7;7:73.
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